They say it’s the thought that counts, but at the end of the day we are judged by our actions. It’s not who we are that defines us but rather what we do.

Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn’t be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn’t know that so it goes on flying anyway.
Mary Kay Ash
To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.
Lewis B. Smedes
Forgivness is divine


Is it possible to forgive and not forget?

To forgive do we have to lose what we learnt through the pain? What we learnt about ourselves? About those who hurt us?

Thomas. S. Szasz said:

" The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget"

Forgetting would make it easier. But if you were exposed to that kind of pain again by that same person, wouldn’t you feel foolish for allowing yourself to forget? Losing that strength you gained through pain only to have find it again.

Repetition does not transform a lie into a truth

Just because you want something bad enough.

Just because you think believing it will patch up the hurt. It’s a temporary fix that doesn’t help the wound heal.

It prolongs the inevitable and eventually plunges you into the same cold pain and hurt that you thought you had escaped.

If only it was that easy.

If only you really could fake it til you make it.

Waste not fresh tears over old griefs